How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 21.06.2025 10:46
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
If there is an abandoned house with no owner, can I live in it?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Ask yourself:
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Which Korean female celebrities look the best in a bikini?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Does not procrastinate.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
What I need from you?
Why are Republican politicians so afraid to oppose Trump?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Do not set goals—set systems.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
What causes you to be tired all the time and major headaches?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Can a meme heal what therapy can't?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Can shaving hair by Veet in our vagina cause diseases?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Nutritionists Rank The Best (And Worst) Packaged Deli Meats For Your Health - HuffPost
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
That's it for today.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Procrastinates a lot.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Making more friends is a goal.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.